WHAT I LEARNT IN 2013

I would say 2013 was an absolute struggle year for me... mainly because I was trying so hard to find stability and I felt like my life was completely up side down... like I had no idea wth was going on with me... I spent the earlier part of the year constantly crying.. I became a wimp and just cut off from everyone...

You see, pretty good things also happened that year but no I only focused on the "bad" things.. I legit lost myself... I did not know wth I was anymore... I had no care in the world.. and everyone was dispensable..  I was unapologetic and excuse my french, but I really did not give a fck


Oh well.. Here's a list of what I learnt

Gotta love yourself.. and look out for yourself... It is ok to be selfish... no one can love you as much you love you

Dont you ever compromise your standards... for anything or anyone

Dont put mad people on pedestals.. yeah if you can, dont put no one there...

Dont go chasing waterfalls

When someone shows you who they are .. believe them.. dont even try to make up excuses and shit

Be a consistent human being

Be close to God

Liveeeeeee... worrying doesn't solve shit... Yeah babe do what you like and makes you happy

There is no point arguing or trying to explain something to someone that wont and cant get it.. be quiet.. don't waste your strength

Count your blessings and you'd be surprised how far you've come

Listening to good music actually makes me happy

I learnt how to be happy by my damn self...

I learnt that sometimes, you might work really hard and still not get positive results.. doesnt make you a damn failure... just keep at it. or try it another way

Figure out what's really important to you ... you know the things that really matter.... dont take them for granted

Family is everything you got.. everyone else sadly is only temporary ... "They say people are in your life for seasons and everything that happens is for a reason"

Knowing when to let go and walk away is skill you will constantly need in life

When all fails and you don't know what else to do... sleep
.. Still so much.. Finish this later